A Account of Unexpected Kindness: The Time a University Student Allowed Me to Sleep on Her Dormitory Floor
During 2006, I traveled to Canberra for an admissions interview for medical school. I figured to book lodging when I arrived, however once I got there, a major event was in town and every single backpackers hostels and budget accommodation were fully booked.
As a visitor from the city-state of Singapore, I considered the possibility of just sleep at the terminal – only to discover Canberra airport, in contrast to Changi Airport, closes 24 hours. Not knowing what my next move should be and growing worried, I boarded public transport and started wandering near a gaming venue, reasoning I could pass those hours in a place that stayed open 24/7. Admittedly, this plan in the ideal condition for nailing an interview the next morning, but as a cash-strapped student, a pricey hotel was out of reach.
Our society requires more people who show such kindness.
Apparently, I appeared confused since a young woman noticed me wandering around downtown and wondered if I was OK. I recounted my predicament and immediately she offered I could crash on the floor at her university residence at the Australian National University – which was perfect, considering that was where my medical school interview was scheduled for the next day. She went further by offering some food: one filled rolls she brought back her part-time job. I was able to use warm shower facilities and a secure location to rest to spend the night.
Looking back, it’s clear to me the enormous leap of faith she undertook as a young woman letting a male stranger she had only just encountered crash at her place. In those days I operated under my own unawareness and was oblivious to the potential danger. Now, as a father, I am astonished she took that chance – but still very grateful.
I never did study at that university, and I never saw her again, but her act remains etched in my mind her selfless deed of kindness. My sincere desire is that life has rewarded her good deed many times over. The world needs more individuals like that woman.